I have mixed feelings about this. I dislike FoRK-wheedling, too. Way back, someone suggested a format of you say what you do, then only after do you decide if FoRKs/Helping dice apply, but I find that hard to stick to.

On the other hand, in a large game with many children players, helping by rolling the dice seems to be fun for them, and spotlight grabs tend to be aggressive. So when someone finally has a chance to do something uninterrupted, it’s quite functional in a fun/minute sense for other players to just shout, “I wanna help!” and they can roll.

There’s something about the moment when player one rolls that’s a kind of cut off – we’re about to move to consequences, so if you’re not rolling dice now, you’re not involved.