That’s because you’re (Paul) prompting Aspects wrong. The good news about Fate Core is that more or less every session, if you have an Aspect that you thought was great but feels artificial or imposed, you can switch it for a better one. (The fact that this never happens is a failure almost entirely of the Fate playerbase and not the rules.) Since you don’t have any freedom to create your character in PBTA games, you just circle options on a list, you’re mistaking amputation for a cure.