Matt Bohnhoff I think that’s a really important difference, in my experience at least, between home and con play.

At home, my thing is my thing. I’ve had players who turned out to be a bad fit to my thing, and a safety tool would not be adequate to fix that. But since we’re all committed to this ongoing relationship, week after week, there are different considerations at work than, say, the one-time 4 hour slot where someone thinks graphic sexual assault would be “in character” and edgy.