Derrick Kapchinsky that’s good stuff. I’m glad you said it! That’s all in the zip code of when I wish we did employ some formal safety tools at home. I even had a specific instance in a game recently where a tool used in good faith might have proven useful.
“Trust” wasn’t the right word. Wavelength? An understanding of our aesthetic boundaries?
(I wish I gave fewer fucks about convention randos. I’m jealous!)