Aaron Griffin whichever! But I’m thinking the player-to-player thing is the most important. It could also be “holy wow you’re committed to your accent” or “I loved it when you revealed your big plan!” or whatever.

Real example: in our Burning Wheel game, completely isolated from the artha payout discussion EOS, I’ve told Jonathan Perrine more than once “I’m loving how wishy-washy your dude is.” Wishy-washy! But it’s so perfect and I want him to know it.

Also: not gushing. Just acknowledgement.