OTOH I can’t tell you how frequently I’ve had scenes like:

Player: “I really need to talk my way past this cop. I mean he’ll let me by when I show him my own badge, right?”

Me: “So you’re persuading an npc. Make the roll.”

Player: “No! My +Heart is terrible!”

Me: “Sighhh…fine, rewind your scene, do the thing you’re actually good at.” Because I just don’t have the energy sometimes to duke it out and “force” a roll. In fact I have a player who flat refuses to roll; like it’s somehow not in our social contract to submit to my judgement about what’s going on in the scene.

That’s a whole other PbtA-specific conversation for another time. But my point is, especially when it comes to interaction scenes, my players stumble into moves all the time. Intimacy in Urban Shadows also, although there’s a validation gate on that one, i.e. “did that feel like an intimate moment?”