A friend of mine (ab)uses the word “bullying” for very similar things. In his lingo, bullying, in a game, is any social pressures that make you do a thing you weren’t gonna do. This includes broad things like playing the game at all when it’s not a topic you’re super into. But it also includes when people are expecting you to act in a certain way because they are audience members.

I think you and him may align in these views